RELATIONSHIP REGRETS AND HOMO-NO-PHOBIA 00:00 / 01:04 Tags # # # # # # # # # # # Fairytales HateCrimes Prejudice Regrets Homophobia Weed Neighbors Drag Exes Mexico MomentOfCulture Share The Guncles share past relationship regrets… Was Ben too pushy? What does a drag party, the number 41, and the son-in-law of a Mexican dictator have in common?

Ben’s “Moment of Culture” begins at a Mexican drag party in 1901… 25.

In the early days of LGBTQ+ liberation, there was much animosity between the individual groups, especially coalitions of lesbians, drag queens, and transvestites who felt left out. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE ​ Moment of Culture of the 1973 Christopher Street Liberation Day march and rally in New York City Recording Golden Gays Hindustan Times: , a pageant for older drag queens in Manilla that creates family while deepening their sense of purpose, joy and support "Golden Gays" – America’s favorite “Dragapella” group Kinsey Sicks The Sex Recession – by Kate Julian – The Atlantic Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex?

Previous Episode Previous Episode 19. EXPERIMENTING IN COLLEGE AND WOMEN WHO WATCH GAY PORN 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #GayPorn #Fetish #DragRace #GayCulture #ComingOut #Dates #Romance #College #VassarCollege #RadicalFaeries #RobynOchs #Cruising #BathroomSex #TeaRooms The Guncles answer three listener questions. One listener asks about friends and dates who’ve told him he’s “not gay enough” for not ascribing to certain aspects of gay culture. A straight female listener wonders if her affinity for gay porn is fetishizing or oppresive to gay men. Last, a Vassar College student wants to know how to connect with other LGBTQ+ folks at school. Ben and Tommy share their own stories of experimenting in college. Share ​ MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE ​ ​ ​ Guncle of the Week: bisexual activist Robyn Ochs