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- Episode 31 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast
Tags # # # # # # # # SexWithWomen Sex Networking Texting Patience KatherineLeeBates DatingApps Dates Share MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Buzzfeed article on Katherine Lee Bates Deeper dive into Katherine Lee Bates by a Wellesley College Alumnae A collection of Katherine Lee Bates Poetry
- Episodes | Ask Your Gay Uncle
Tommy helps Ben break through the friendzone while Ben helps Tommy craft a flirty text.
- Episode 26 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast
Previous Episode Previous Episode 26. A VERY COVID CHRISTMAS 00:00 / 01:04 Tags # # # # # # COVID HIV Testing Holidays Christmas NewYears Ben and Tommy travel to Kentucky for family Christmas and get tested for Covid, and explore the similarities between COVID and HIV. Ben shares a memory of a previous family Christmas, which gives Tommy a chance to see himself from Ben’s 11-yr-old perspective. The Guncles battle head-to-head with Christmas Carols (why are there so many!?) and help a listener celebrate a solo New Year’s Eve. Share MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE CDC: COVID demographics HIV.gov: HIV demographics
- Episode 8 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast
Previous Episode Previous Episode 8. DATING APPS, ONLYFANS, AND MEETING THE PARENTS 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #onlyfans #boundaries #relationships #LGBTQhistory #family #datingapps What’s the best way to meet people for dating? Is it safe to subscribe to OnlyFans? How do you get solo time with your lover when their friends keep getting in the way? Ben wants advice on bringing someone home to meet the family. Tommy reveals his unusual hair care routine. In “A Moment of Culture” the guncles dig into the truth about Tchaikovsky’s untimely death…. cholera or suicide? Share MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE A Moment of Culture – Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky has a shitload of info on Tchaikovsky and here’s that ends with the author debunking the theory of forced suicide. Tommy personally thinks there are holes in the author's final argument, but read it and decide for yourself! This website a loooong article The Death of Tchaikovsky – Washington Post article. Quick read with excellent info that supports the forced suicide theory. When you need a good cry... . The last piece he ever wrote. Here it is: listen to Herbert Van Karajan conducting the final movement of Tchaikovsky’s 6th Symphony . If you want a REALLY good cry, listen to the last movement of his 6th symphony while checking out humandignitytrust.org This is a brilliant website that shows all the jurisdictions that still criminalize LGBTQ+ people, plus a host of other things. Just scroll over a country and the info pops up.
- Episode 15 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast
Previous Episode Previous Episode 15. DADDIES, ULTIMATUMS, AND THE WORD "FAGGOT" 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #Daddies #Thruples #Faggot #ConflictResolution #LGBTQHistoryMonth #RodneyWilson #Teachers #ComingOut Share Two questions are about Daddies: One listener wants to join a thruple with two older men, but is perplexed about their “live-in boyfriend”. Another question is from a 50 yr old listener who is getting lots of attention from younger guys, and wants to know whether or not to embrace being a Daddy. The other two questions deal with resolving conflict: In the first, Tommy and Ben help a listener who's struggling with a conservative landlord that plans to kick him out if he campaigns for Biden and Harris. Our final question is from a listener in California who wants her boyfriend to stop saying the word “faggot”. Guncle of the Week is Rodney Wilson, a Missouri high school teacher who created Gay History Month (now LGBTQ History Month) while teaching in St Louis in the 90s. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Daddies by Louis Staples – Indy100 Move over Twinks, we’re now in the age of the Daddy by Kevin Phinney – Metrosource How To Be A Gay Daddy 101 Rodney Wilson Read More: A Circa87 documentary short – Taboo Teaching: A Profile of Missouri Teacher Rodney Wilson by JR Tungol (HuffPost) LGBT History Month Icon Of The Day: Rodney Wilson LGBT History Month – Rodney Wilson biography
- Episode 9 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast
Previous Episode Previous Episode 9. GAY UNCLE'S DAY, SIMON DUNN, AND BADASS BITCHES 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #SimonDunn #LGBTQathletes #athletes #gayunclesday #cooking #generationgap #film #tv #WalterCronkite #2000s #1970s #LegallyBlonde #BringItOn #MissCongeniality Share Hunky Australian pro-athlete and LGBTQ+ activist Simon Dunn talks about being out in the world of sports, facing failures, and the temptation to sugarcoat reality on social media. Simon is a proud guncle and is credited with popularizing Gay Uncles Day, celebrated this year on Sunday, August 9. Happy Gay Uncle’s Day, everyone! Tommy seeks advice on getting to bed earlier and following a more consistent sleep routine, due to the guidelines of his Ayurvedic dosha. But is consistency and routine actually better than living in the moment? Ben wonders if adhering to strict consistency is the right path for his wild, free-spirited uncle. The Guncles reveal their secret cooking ingredients and favorite songs (Carl Orff’s Carmina Burana and Rufus Wainwright’s cover of Hallelujah). In the Generation Gap, Tommy quizzes Ben on 70s TV. Ben shares his fascination with an early 2000s microgenre of blockbuster movies characterized by empowered, objectified, female leads. Titles include Legally Blond, Charlie’s Angels, Bring it On, and Miss Congeniality. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE One of Tommy's favorite songs: Carmina Burana, by Carl Orff In case you don’t know Carl Orff, here’s a stunning chronicling how as a secret Jew he lied, manipulated and negotiated his way to safety through Nazi Germany. article One of Ben's favorite songs: Hallelujah, by and covered by the incomparable gay composer and singer . Leonard Cohen Rufus Wainwright Simon Dunn Read More: GiveOUT Australia - Growing the pot of gold for LGBTQ+ people, businesses and organizations. - Australia’s longest running HIV charity whose mission is helping people as individuals. Bobby Goldsmith Foundation – The world’s first community foundation of, by, and for LGBTQ people, Horizons sponsors Give Out Day. Check them out! Give Out Day was created by Horizons
- Episode 10 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast
Previous Episode Previous Episode 10. THE BODY EPISODE 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #LauraAguilar #photography #auditorydyslexia #somatics #bodymindcentering #alexandertechnique #socialmedia #instagram #grindr #MichaelPollan #food #bodyimage #sexparties #ageism Share What inspires you to be healthy? What’s the dark side of letting your body image encompass your identity? How do you feel about thirst traps and naked torsos on Instagram and Grindr? Ben and Tommy answer listener questions regarding self care, sex parties with strict body requirements, body image on social media, and their personal relationships to female bodies. Tommy opens up about ageism and feeling invisible in the gay community. The guncles share advice on how to be in touch with your body. Ben shares personal life-hacks for wellness, like using a habit-tracker journal. For “Gauntie of the Week”, Tommy presents Mexican-American lesbian photographer Laura Aguilar. Laura wrestled with auditory dyslexia, obesity, and fitting in with the Lesbian and Chicana communities. She transformed her challenges into evocative art that highlights the underrepresented. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Somatics – an excellent introductory article explaining Somatics The Growing Popularity of Somatic Practices – This is one of Tommy’s favorite somatic modalities. He says, “It is mind-blowingly deep, transformative (and slightly esoteric) powerful work!” Body Mind Centering Alexander Technique explains how the Alexander Technique increases self-awareness while teaching one how to change bad habits. This 2 minute video , put out by The British Medical Journal, offers glimpses into Alexander Technique classes and studies evaluating its efficacy. This longer video is a lesser known somatic method which offers easily understood and applicable exercises, images, and suggestions. Ideokinesis is a simple yet deeply powerful eyes-closed movement exploration that investigates the psyche, metaphor, imagination, and the subconscious. Authentic Movement Psychotherapist, psychoanalyst, writer and social critic is a seminal figure investigating body image, women and physical appearance in her books and . Suzy Orbach Fat is a Feminist Issue Bodies (book by Michael Pollan) Food Rules The Ben uses Habit Tracker Journal habit tracker journal. How to make your own Laura Augilar Read More: Lesbian, Latina, Large: The Unapologetic Artwork of Laura Aguilar ~ An Image Gallery by Daniel Hernandez – L.A. TACO Laura Aguilar, Groundbreaking Lesbian Chicana Photographer, Dies at 58 by Yvonne S. Marquez – Autostraddle Laura Aguilar Was a Proud Latina Lesbian, and She Flaunted It by Yxta Maya Murray –Aperture