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  • Episode 17 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode 17. 'SEXPERT' ZACHARY ZANE ON BISEXUALITY, BOTTOMING, AND MASC4MASC 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #ZacharyZane #Polyamory #Bisexuality #Bottoming #Pegging #ComingOut Share The Guncles are joined by Zachary Zane, leading bisexual activist and writer. Zach has a weekly sex advice column in Men’s Health and writes for Washington Post, Rolling Stone, Queer Majority, and more. He has spoken across the country about bisexuality, sex-positivity, and ethical non-monogamy. Zach dishes about being an “ethical manwhore” and his journey to accepting his bisexuality. He also helps The Guncles answer two listener questions: one about a disappointing sexual encounter and the second about how to prepare for bottoming. ​ MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE ​ ​ ​ Zachary Zane Website – zacharyzane.com Instagram – @zacharyzane_ Twitter – @zacharyzane_

  • Episode 2 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode 2. DMs, RADICAL FAERIES, AND BURYING THE HATCHET 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #radicalfaeries #boundaries #relationships #DMs #socialmedia #forgiveness Share Ben gets a lesson about the Radical Faeries. Tommy gets a lesson about DMs. Both uncles explore ways to forgive and move on. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE ​ A Moment of Culture – Tyler French ​"I am a multidisciplinary artist and organizer with a commitment to integrating arts and cultural activities into all aspects of our lives." – TylerFrench.com Ptown July 25, 2018 – a poem by Tyler French Howard Ashman Our Episode 2 Guncle of the Week is Howard Ashman! 🎶 A huge thank you to Danny Segura for presenting this week's GOTW segment. Listen now on all major platforms... and don’t forget to follow — he’s working on a solo show about Howard Ashman! Danny Segura ​ Read more here: Part of His World: Howard Ashman Official Website by Joanna Robinson – Vanity Fair Inside the Tragedy and Triumph of Disney Genius Howard Ashman

  • Episode 1 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode 1. SHAWN MENDES, GAY TRIBALISM, AND MULTIPLE ORGASMS 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #family #comingout #love #LGBTQhistory Share How do you tell your siblings that their kids might be LGBTQ? How do you stop falling in love with unavailable people? What's a rhombus? Alice Ruth Moore Dunbar-Nelson In Episode 1, we give a shoutout to author and social activist Alice Ruth Moore (1875-1935). ​ Read about Moore here: Biography of Alice Ruth Moore Dunbar-Nelson by Wilma J. Johnson – BlackPast Alice Moore Dunbar-Nelson – Poetry Foundation Poems by Alice Dunbar-Nelson – Poets.org

  • Episode 3 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode 3. HOMOS IN THE ARTS AND THE GENERATION GAP 00:00 / 01:04 Why are there so many gay men in the arts? Tommy and Ben examine the Generation Gap. Tags #onlyfans #boundaries #relationships #LGBTQhistory #family #datingapps Share MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE ​ ​​ A Moment of Culture – by Andrew Sean Greer Less 'I Wrote It for Myself': Andrew Sean Greer on Pulitzer-winning Less by Greg Callaghan – The Sydney Morning Herald​ Historical Guncles & Gaunties Episode 3’s QueerFam of the week is ALL of the brave queer couples that posed to have their pictures taken, back when it was difficult and even dangerous to do so. These pioneers were trailblazers! ​ See them and read more here: Heartwarming Photos Of Same Sex Couples Throughout History by Christopher Shultz – Ranker by Paul Gallagher – Dangerous Minds Love and Affection: Vintage Photos of Gay and Lesbian Couples These 26 Vintage Photos of Gay Couples Showing Affection Will Melt Your Heart by Bil Browning – LGBTQ Nation

  • Episode 4 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode 4. MAGIC CARPETS AND WHITE PATRIARCHY 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #patriarchy #race #politics #LGBTQhistory #love #socialaction Share How can we let in the feeling of love? How do gay white men benefit from the Patriarchy? What do the Guncles want for the next generation of Guncles? Dr. Alan L. Hart Episode 4’s Guncle of the Week is Alan L. Hart, who pursued groundbreaking scientific research in radiology and tuberculosis treatment. Alan was one of the first trans men to have a hysterectomy in the US (ca 1917) and live the remainder of his life as a man. He overcame multiple public outings, each time being forced to relocate his entire medical practice. Alan pioneered the use of x-ray photography in tuberculosis detection, and helped implement TB screening programs that saved thousands of lives. A true hero! ​ Read More: TG History: The Measure of a Man — Dr. Alan L. Hart by Michelle Moore – TG Forum Biography of Alan L. Hart by Ari Mejia – OutHistory.org From the Archives: Dr. Alan Hart / Lucille Hart – Lewis & Clark Libraries

  • Bonus: Deep Dive | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode BONUS: DEEP DIVE WITH TOMMY & BEN 00:00 / 01:04 An extended "Guncle-to-Guncle". Tommy and Ben share some deeply personal stories. Tags #boundaries #relationships #personal #stories #cw #tw #triggerwarning #abuse Share

  • Episode 5 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode 5. PrEP, LIES, AND FRIENDS (NOT THE SITCOM) 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #PrEP #boundaries #relationships #LGBTQhistory #health #friendships Share Tommy and Ben discuss the details of PrEP. The uncles also tackle friends that don't get along, friends that fall in love with friends, and friends that have a bone to pick with their friends. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE ​ Listener Questions – PrEP "Is PrEP Right for Me?" Quiz from GET PrEP LA ​ Madin Ray Lopez ​ In Episode 5, listen to present our Queerfam of the Week, . Madin, founder of Project Q and badass community leader, made it their mission to help LGBTQIA homeless youth of color. The ProjectQ Salon and Community Center is a huge force for youth self-empowerment in LA today. “Tenacity speaks louder than circumstances.” -Madin Eva Grenier Madin Ray Lopez ​ Read More: ProjectQ Madin's Instagram

  • Episode 6 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode 6. SISSIES, THREESOMES, AND PUPPIES 00:00 / 01:04 The guncles tease apart derogatory words like sissy, poontang, and pecker. Ben considers a threesome. Tags #language #LGBTQculture #threesome #relationships Share

  • Episode 7 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode 7. THE PORN EPISODE 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #pornography #relationships #LGBTQculture #sex #erotica #powerdynamics Share Tommy and Ben go down the porn rabbit-hole. Special guest Bruce Merkle presents Guncle of The Week, legendary Hollywood film director George Cukor. George Cukor ​ In Episode 7, hear present #GuncleOfTheWeek, legendary Hollywood film director George Cukor (My Fair Lady, Philadelphia Story, Holiday). Cukor championed women and was a favorite of Katherine Hepburn and Judy Garland. He was also one of the first out gay film directors. Bruce Merkle ​ Read More: The Celebrity Masks of George Cukor by Richard Brody – New Yorker Magazine George Cukor’s Way with Women by Farran Smith Nehme – The Criterion Collection Biography of George Cukor Turner Classic Movies

  • Episode 8 | Ask Your Gay Uncle Podcast

    Previous Episode Previous Episode 8. DATING APPS, ONLYFANS, AND MEETING THE PARENTS 00:00 / 01:04 Tags #onlyfans #boundaries #relationships #LGBTQhistory #family #datingapps What’s the best way to meet people for dating? Is it safe to subscribe to OnlyFans? How do you get solo time with your lover when their friends keep getting in the way? Ben wants advice on bringing someone home to meet the family. Tommy reveals his unusual hair care routine. In “A Moment of Culture” the guncles dig into the truth about Tchaikovsky’s untimely death…. cholera or suicide? Share MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE ​ A Moment of Culture – Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky has a shitload of info on Tchaikovsky and here’s that ends with the author debunking the theory of forced suicide. Tommy personally thinks there are holes in the author's final argument, but read it and decide for yourself! This website a loooong article ​ The Death of Tchaikovsky – Washington Post article. Quick read with excellent info that supports the forced suicide theory. ​ When you need a good cry... . The last piece he ever wrote. Here it is: listen to Herbert Van Karajan conducting the final movement of Tchaikovsky’s 6th Symphony . If you want a REALLY good cry, listen to the last movement of his 6th symphony while checking out humandignitytrust.org This is a brilliant website that shows all the jurisdictions that still criminalize LGBTQ+ people, plus a host of other things. Just scroll over a country and the info pops up.